It's Not You, It's Them

Healing, humor, and perspective for anyone ghosted.

About It’s Not You, It’s Them

Welcome! You’ve landed in the right place if you’ve ever been ghosted, left on read, or just plain ignored—and wondered what the heck just happened.

I created It’s Not You, It’s Them to help people navigate the confusing, frustrating, and sometimes downright ridiculous world of modern dating. Ghosting can sting, but it says more about the other person than it does about you. Here, we focus on healing, humor, and perspective.

You’ll find:

  • Stories and reflections about ghosting and disappearing acts
  • Advice and tips for setting boundaries and reclaiming your peace
  • Humor and relatable content because sometimes laughing is the best medicine

Whether you’re fresh off a ghost, still questioning what went wrong, or just need a reminder that you’re worthy of respect and attention, this is your safe space.

At It’s Not You, It’s Them, we turn ghosting frustration into empowerment. 💜

Remember: You’re not alone. You’re not broken. And it’s never about you—it’s them.