Terms of Use

By using this website or purchasing any products from it, you agree to these terms. Please read them — they're written in plain language, not legalese.

Who these terms apply to

These Terms of Use apply to all visitors and users of itsnotyouitsthem.com, including anyone who purchases digital products through this site. The site is operated by Jen, the sole owner of It's Not You, It's Them. Questions can be directed to contact@itsnotyouitsthem.com.

This is not therapy or professional advice

The content on this site — including all blog posts, free downloads, and paid guides and workbooks — is created for educational and informational purposes only. It reflects personal perspective and research, and is intended to provide general support and insight around topics related to modern dating and emotional wellbeing.

Nothing on this site constitutes or replaces professional mental health advice, therapy, counseling, or medical treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, please reach out to a qualified professional or a crisis support service. In the US, you can text HOME to 741741 to reach the Crisis Text Line.

The results people experience from using the content on this site vary. Nothing here is a guarantee of any particular emotional outcome.

Digital products — purchases and refunds

Instant delivery. All products sold on this site are digital downloads delivered immediately upon purchase. Because of the instant-access nature of digital products, all sales are generally final.

Refund policy. If you experience a technical issue that prevents you from accessing or downloading your purchase, please contact me at contact@itsnotyouitsthem.com within 7 days and I will do everything I can to resolve it, including providing a replacement file or a refund if the issue cannot be fixed.

Personal use only. All digital products are licensed for personal use only. You may not reproduce, redistribute, resell, share publicly, or use any purchased content for commercial purposes. You may print a personal copy for your own use.

Payment processing is handled by Payhip. By completing a purchase, you also agree to Payhip's Terms of Service.

Intellectual property

All content on this site — including writing, design, graphics, product names, and the site itself — is the intellectual property of It's Not You, It's Them and is protected by applicable copyright law.

You are welcome to share links to blog posts and pages on social media or in personal conversations. You may quote brief excerpts with clear attribution and a link back to the original page. You may not copy or reproduce substantial portions of any content without written permission.

To request permission for any use beyond what's described here, email contact@itsnotyouitsthem.com.

Email list

By joining the email list, you agree to receive emails from It's Not You, It's Them. You can unsubscribe at any time using the unsubscribe link in any email. I will not send you spam or sell your email address to third parties.

Third-party links

This site may contain links to external websites. These links are provided for convenience and reference only. I do not control those sites and am not responsible for their content, privacy practices, or accuracy. Linking to a site does not imply endorsement.

Disclaimer of warranties

This site and all content are provided "as is" without warranties of any kind, either express or implied. While I make every effort to ensure the content is accurate and helpful, I make no guarantees about completeness, reliability, or suitability for any particular purpose.

Limitation of liability

To the fullest extent permitted by law, It's Not You, It's Them and its owner shall not be liable for any indirect, incidental, or consequential damages arising from your use of this site or its content. Your use of this site is entirely at your own risk.

Governing law

These terms are governed by the laws of the jurisdiction in which the site owner resides, without regard to conflict of law principles.

Changes to these terms

These terms may be updated from time to time. The date at the top of this page reflects when they were last revised. Continued use of the site after changes are posted constitutes acceptance of the updated terms.

Contact

Questions about these terms? Email contact@itsnotyouitsthem.com.